Little differences mean a lot

Posted on March 1, 2012 by Paul

For those who don’t really pay too much attention to theirs and their partners private parts, cocks and vaginas may seem to be all alike.

Sure men’s cocks can be different in terms of length and thickness, but all of them fall under two broad categories. They’re either circumcised or uncircumcised. All cocks that fall under either category will have the same basic look.

The same is true with women’s vaginas. Some are bigger and with wider lips than others, but the are essentially a mass of overlapping flesh with a small clitoris on top of the opening that vaguely resembles a penis.

Men and women who appreciate the nuances of sex know better, of course. They know that no two vaginas or cocks are built exactly alike. The can almost be likened to fingerprints in that no two can be 100 percent similar.

Men also know that vaginas have varying degrees of tightness. Some can seem to grip their cocks, while others are loose enough to feel like the inside muscles are barely touching theirs.

Even the level of wetness can vary from pussy to pussy. Some will seem as if a glass of water has just been poured on it, while others are almost dry as a garden in summer.

Men who purchase sex toys can therefore be very particular about whose realistic vagina they are getting. The sex toys are created from master molds of various adult stars, who have to undergo an uncomfortable session of having plaster of paris poured over their private parts, wait for that plaster to harden, and hope that the mold does not crack as it is being taken off.

If all goes well, the products are created bearing their images. But if the mold cracks or has imperfections, everything has to be repeated.

From the mold, casts are then made by the hundreds or thousands, depending on the expected demand.

Very recently, a well known Hollywood starlet was reported to be mulling joining the ranks of the adult stars who have had molds of their lower torso made, with casts to be made available to her male fans. Since the starlet recently appeared nude in one of the established men’s magazines, her becoming a model for a sex toy is within the realm of the possible.

If she agrees, she will join the likes of Briana Banks, Carmen Luvana and Inari Vachs who have had molds of their pussies and butts made.

Men can therefore have a wider and wider array of realistic vaginas of the ladies that they fantasize over for their personal pleasure. They can take note of the little differences of one star over another, then rate whose pussies they find the most fuckable.

The realistic vaginas, incidentally, have gone forward in recent years, with some models even being naturally lubricated. Others have the special extra of a built in vibrator. All of them have the look and feel of the real thing, and no man can ask for more.

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The best men’s sex toys keep getting better

Posted on February 17, 2012 by Paul

When a man gets a blow job, the happiness that follows can last for hours. It is a form of sex that they dream about all the time. It is also a form of sex that they never get tired of.

Sexually inexperienced men think that the women give the best blow jobs. They are correct, but not completely accurate. What they are not aware of is that equally terrific blow jobs can come from gay men and sex toys.

It is when a man begins to experiment with sex toys that he will discover what sexually mature men already know. The best men’s sex toys such as blow job imitators are so outstanding that it’s almost impossible to tell the difference from fellatio as performed by a woman or a gay man.

And that’s only the beginning. There’s so much more to discover in the world of men’s sex toys. Love dolls, fleshlights, pocket pussies – the choices are endless for a man looking for the pleasures of masturbation. If they want to explore the world of backdoor sex, there’s always the variety of choices for anal toys for men including anal dildos, butt plugs and vibrators.

For the sheer pleasure of it, men’s sex toys have already reached a stage of near perfection that it’s hard to imagine how much further they can go. Suffice it to say that the best men’s sex toys guarantee orgasms every bit as pleasurable as having sex with a live partner.

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Signs That You Should Get Rid of Your Sex Toy Right Now

Posted on February 14, 2012 by Paul

Sex toys are designed to give you great pleasure, but only if they are safe for the health. Normally, toys are made with great care using materials that are safe for the body. Unfortunately, there are products that are inferior to others and this applies to sex toys as well. If there’s something wrong with your sex toy, you should throw it out and never use it again. So how do you know that your toy should be heading to the trash can (or the recycling bin)? Here’s what you should watch out for.

The smell

Majority of sex toys are made from materials like vinyl, rubber, jelly, and cyberskin. These materials each have its natural smell that should not be offensive. If your toy starts to emit a weird and foul smell, then something must be wrong with it. How do you know the natural smell from the bad one? Well, if the material starts to smell like burned tires or old gym stocks, then it’s time to get rid of the toy, pronto.

Visible damage in the material

Most sex toys are made of sturdy materials that do not break easily, but accidents do happen and they can cause considerable damage to your toy. Now you don’t have to wait for your toy to get totally wrecked just to ditch it. If your toy has tears and cracks that you can easily see, consider going for a replacement. Those little tears or cracks can become an entryway for harmful bacteria, which will certainly spell disaster for your body.

How your body reacts to it

Some toys can hurt you because of the size or the shape. This is understandable if the toy in question is too big for you or your body is just not accustomed to the shape or built. But it is a different story when you feel itching, burning, or tingling sensation whenever you use it. This can be caused by chemicals that are harmful to the body. Or maybe your body is not compatible with the material and you may develop an allergic reaction. Either way, this is a sure sign for you to stop using the toy.

Quality of the material

There are materials that do not have a longer shelf life and if your toy is made of such material, then you should watch out for the day that your toy becomes “expired.” Toys made from porous materials are usually meant for short-term use.

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Essential Stuff a Man Needs to Know About the Clit

Posted on February 10, 2012 by Paul

If you want to be the kind of lover that women will always look for, it is imperative that you master the ways of the clitoris. For most women, the clit is the most sensitive spot of the female genitals. Stimulating it the right way will produce awesome orgasms that your woman needs. To become a legendary lover, you must pay close attention to the clit. Sure, you have heard about the legendary g-spot, which is said to the holy grail of female orgasm. But not all women have g-spots and even if your woman has it, it is not a guarantee that she will have great sensitivity on hers. With her clitoris, you can never go wrong.

Before you start learning how to pleasure the clit, you must know for sure where it is located. Believe it or not, there are lots of men who do not know where this love button is actually located. The clit is this tiny bud found above the opening of her pussy. Look at the inner labia and you can find the clit at the top of it. When not aroused, the clit hides inside a hood made of skin and comes out when stimulated. In this respect, it acts just like a penis. When you stimulate the clit, it becomes engorged and comes out of its hiding place. The bud itself is filled with nerves which make it very sensitive to touch.

The sensitivity of the clit is so much that some women get hurt or ticklish when the bud is rubbed or touched too roughly. Great care must be observed when it comes to touching the clitoris. You can play with her clitoris using your fingers or your tongue. Tongue play is very important if you want to stimulate the clit. In order for you to master this, you have to spend some time practicing. Not all men are experts when it comes to cunnilingus. When giving your woman head, practice with different strokes and speeds to know which moves will work on her clitoris.

Stimulating the clit can be done not only during cunnilingus. You can also play with her button during intercourse, which can make orgasm easier for her. For instance, you can rub her clit while you are in the dog style position.

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Making Her Pussy Fresh Before Going for the Dive

Posted on January 31, 2012 by Paul

A real man would never back out from giving a woman the pleasure of best oral sex of her life, but even the manliest of men would have second thoughts giving head when presented with a foul-smelling vagina. You think that great pussy hygiene should be second nature to women, but let’s face it, you will encounter females who are not so self-conscious of their look and smell down there. Now instead of bolting out of the door and leaving her high and dry, why don’t you freshen her up yourself to make her more appetizing for your muff dive? The easy solution? Take a shower together!

Bear in mind that not all women smell the same down there

There are women who will have a stronger vaginal smell than the others, but remember not all women have the same smell. But even if they smell different, the smell should not be offensive. You must learn how to differentiate what’s normal or not. You may have to get used to the smell of your woman’s pussy first, but for the meantime, why not take a sexy shower together?

Manipulating the sexy shower

Say you find her smell a bit unpleasant. You think she needs a wash. Don’t tell it to her outright, unless she’s cool with frank criticism regarding her pussy. But most women won’t like that, since they can be very sensitive with how they smell down there. So do this neat trick and tell her that you want to shower together. If she asks why, tell her that you want to run your hands all over her breasts or butt while in the bath. Or you want to make her more relaxed by massing her body while in the shower. Once you are there, you can simply wash her vagina yourself and ensure its freshness.

Getting rid of the hair

Same technique should apply when it comes to cleaning her bush. If she is sporting full growth down there, you can offer to shave or trim her pubic hair. If she asks, tell her that you find it erotic to tend to her pussy before having sex. If you intend to do this, do make sure that you know how to shave pussy properly. You don’t want to injure her down there. Wash her vagina too while you are at it.

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Sex Positions for the Vain in You

Posted on January 24, 2012 by Paul

While it is true that men are not so critical of women’s bodies especially during sex, women still can’t get totally comfortable with their naked bodies. Even if they are in the middle of nooky, they still get self-conscious with how their boobs, stomach, and thighs must look. Being too conscious of your body can kill your self-confidence and translate to bad performance in bed. A woman who is comfortable with her body will be able to focus on trying different positions for her pleasure. Speaking of positions, there are actually sex positions that can show your good parts to your advantage and conceal the not-so-good ones. Here are some positions that can appeal to your vanity:

Missionary

Good ‘ol missionary can actually make you look good in bed. If you have problems with your butt and thighs, then this is the position for you. Once you wrap your legs around your man, he will not be able to see your thunder thighs anymore. Instead, he will focus on your boobs and stomach. Your man will also become busy looking at the reactions of your face while he is fucking you.

Cowgirl

If you are exceptionally proud of your boobs, the nothing beats cowgirl position. Your boobs will be displayed in all their glory while you straddle him. The bouncing of your tits will titillate him no end. So go ahead and bounce all you want so you can display your mammary bits to advantage. You can also fake a flat stomach while in this position; just remember to stretch your body out while moving up and down his dick.

Doggy style

If you are not confident with your stomach, then the doggy style will solve your anxiety problems easily. Since you are in all fours, your partner won’t be able to gaze at your stomach. This is also for women who are conscious of their small breasts. Doggy style is also favorable for those who want to display their stupendous butts, which the men can slap and pinch while having sex.

Spooning

This is also a great position for those who are shy with their breasts and tummies. Since you will be lying on your side, it will hide your boobs and stomach from full view. Another great benefit of spooning is he can stroke and play with your clitoris while he fucks you from behind.

 

 

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How to Take in Charge in Bed like a Real Man

Posted on January 20, 2012 by Paul

It’s true that women want men to be tender, loving, and romantic. I mean, who doesn’t want a man who sends flowers, calls when he says he will, and treats his woman like a real lady, right? But in bed, what a woman really craves is a man who takes control. Women desired to be controlled by their men, even if they may not say so themselves. So in order for you to satisfy your woman, you have to be the ultimate alpha male when the need calls for it. All the sex techniques in the world won’t help you if you don’t know how to take charge. Here’s how to do it:

Know how to command
This means you don’t ask or beg for sex in a sweet manner. Do not ask, just do it. Approach her from behind then clasp her breasts with your hungry hands. Peel off her clothes then push her on the bed. Do this firmly, but not brutally. You want to be an alpha male, not a sadist. Devour her body and then tease her by not entering her until she begs for it. Control your urges well so you can give her the dominance she seeks. When you are ready to plunge, turn her body this way and that, in the position that you want. Control her orgasms as well. Tell her she can only get off when you want to.

Talk dirty
Sweet, romantic words are fine, but for alpha males, dirty talk is the deal. Set the mood by calling her up while she is at work and tease her by telling her the things that you will do to her once she’s already in the bedroom. This is not the time to say your “I love you” stuff; this is time when you say “I wanna fuck you so hard later until you’re bone tired” bit.

Give it to her doggy style
Missionary is nice, in a romantic way. So to establish the alpha male mode, you must give it to her from behind, and you must give it to her hard. Grab her by the hair and ride her hard and fast. Make sure that she likes it though. You can also use some butt plugs for pleasure. Once she starts to protest, as in real protest, then you have to stop or slow down.

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Why it’s better with a vibrator

Posted on January 17, 2012 by Paul

Women who use vibrators regularly can consider themselves part of a worldwide sisterhood. They have more orgasms than their peers who don’t own the toy, or who don’t use it regularly.

It is not – repeat NOT – psychological. There is, in fact, strong scientific basis for their preferring vibrators to anything else, sex with a real person included.

This is because some women cannot have an orgasm if whatever touches their vagina and clitoris vibrates at less than 3,000 RPM, or revolutions per minute. No human tongue or fingers, male or female, can generate that much speed. It’s just physically impossible.

Tongues and fingers can rotate and buzz, but nowhere near, what vibrators can do. Penises, meanwhile, can do little else but thrust. Not that there’s anything wrong with simple thrusting. It’s enjoyable enough, and this is the way men and women have been having sex since the dawn of time.

However, the vibrator invented more than a century ago can boldly go where nothing has gone before (with apologies to the Trekkies out there). It is as if the entire history of female sexuality was waiting for the day that the vibrator would be invented and perfected.

Some vibrators are better than others, of course. And there is an optimum RPM speed, beyond which no additional pleasure can be attained.

The two-headed rabbit vibrators may or may not be the ultimate sex toy for women. But since rabbits perform the dual task of penetrating the vagina (and hopefully hitting the G-spot) as well as tickling the clitoris, it is hard to imagine anything being better.

This is not to say that some brilliant inventor out there may not be able to create something even better than the rabbit vibrator. But we are willing to wait. In the meantime, we will happily settle for our single or twin-head vibrators, getting orgasm after orgasm on a regular basis.

If you’re not a member yet, it’s about time you joined the sisterhood. The best thing about it? There are no annual dues to pay. Just a one-time purchase of a 3,000-RPM vibrator is all you need to assure yourself of sexual happiness for as long as you live!

 

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Cunnilingus Techniques Guaranteed to Make Her Wild

Posted on January 10, 2012 by Paul

Not everyone is born with skills like Casanova and not everyone has penis size that can make women go nuts, but you can even the playing field with superb oral sex skills. Here are the moves that you should master to make your woman scream for more:

Diagonal

Granted, this is not an easy move to do in the sense that your tongue will get twisted and ache if you do this repeatedly. What you can do however is improvise. Place your head on her inner thigh for support, which slants your head and make diagonal licking easier and more effective. Start licking from the bottom of her pussy up to the opposite side in one full motion of your tongue. The diagonal flick is best used in combination with other moves for more variety.

Side to side

If you want to get her wet quick and easy, do the side to side motion. This move makes the tongue move in an unusual way and tickles the pussy in a more exciting way. This is best done with more pressure from your tongue, and the pressure will feel really good on her pussy, especially on her clit. Test gently on your partner first; the added pressure may prove too much on her sensitive clit. Putting lube on her pussy before licking side to side will do wonders for her pleasure.

Numbers and alphabets

This is a classic trick that works all the time. You can spell out words and let her guess it, but as you go on, she will be so turned on she won’t pay attention to the spellings that you are trying to do.

Shadow

You will need your finger for this trick. Your finger should mimic whatever move your tongue does. So if you licked her clit with two swift strokes, her finger should be able to do the same move as well. Make sure that the pressure you make is the same with the tongue.

Pointed lick

This is where you use your tongue to lick her pussy in a precise area. Here you make your tongue as firm as you can make it and lick on a desired area, such as her clitoris. Licks should be hard, short, and quick and focused on just one area. When she gets used to it, lick more quickly and repeatedly.

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Porn to Improve Sex

Posted on January 6, 2012 by Paul

Pornography can help men and women in their sexual arousal and erotic satisfaction. It is now accepted that it will help both partner to add spice and thrill to their sexual relationship. Pornographic videos are popular in this line. Videos can help your sex session exciting and interesting, the way you watch this movies can give them impact and curiosity. To improve sex using pornographic videos these are some ways:

Watch the videos and learn from it. Watching pornographic videos will help you increase your libido and improve your desire. The images and pictures that you see will give you stimulation in having sex. What you watch will give you the idea to use it in your session. Watching pornographic videos will give you chance to copy the position and for sure it will give variety of sensation to the both of you. Watching porn can also liberate both of you and can make you more open-minded and vocal to the positions that you want to explore. You can also get an idea of role-playing to add excitement to your session.

When watching porn, men should give importance to their girlfriend especially when it is first time for her. You should keep in mind some tips while watching. Do not be too aggressive, you might scare her. Tell her that she is the most beautiful girl in the world even when both of you are in bed. Do not compare her performance to the women in the video to prevent bad mood on her. If the women will feel bad, it will also affect her mood to bed. If both of you are enjoying what you are doing it may have positive outcome to your relationship, it may improve your sex lives and sex ideas. In watching videos you can also discuss the things that you want to do and the things that you do not want to experience.

Put in mind that watching porn movies is not sex education. It is not a requirement to copy the sex position perfectly, you just need to get the idea and make it your own. Porn movies will just improve your sex life, what matters most is that both of you enjoyed and satisfied. You should keep away watching the same movie all over again, it may kill the excitement. Watch different kinds of porn movies to get ideas.

Pornographic videos will help you and your partner improves your sex life. There are different kinds of movies to watch and a lot of different skills and performance to learn. These videos will only be a guide for the both of you, it will only share ideas but the performance will be base on what both of you want.

 

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